This announcement is just to let those of you who may not know it that James Judd rocks. Seriously.
This post has been in the works since early pregnancy. This is a compilation on of all the incidents I wanted to brag on him about but couldn't do so publicly until we had officially announced the pregnancy. And then we moved to China, then we had all kinds of tech issues and so here we are, but I still wanted to announce it:
JAMES JUDD IS AWESOME!
Here are some of the ways he goes above and beyond normal husband and dad duty:
- James cleaned up my puke. Multiple times. The worst incident involved a hotel sink and an entire Caesar salad. He also took care of the girls while I puked or while I sat wishing I could puke so that the nausea would go away.
- James does night duty like a rock star. Not only when we have a cozy little newborn, but also when we have a preschooler who doesn't always sleep through the night. I have never been so thankful to marry a Ranger as I am when one of our children wakes up in the night. Thank you, US Army, for whatever horrible training you subject your Rangers to that make them able to rouse from deep slumber to full alertness in a manner of seconds. This ability was confirmed when one of James' ranger friends came to stay with us just before we left America and shared that he also possesses this superpower and uses it to help to wife with their children. I, however, was not an Army Ranger and do not possess that gift. I stumble around and grumble and complain so I'm grateful every time I hear his feet hit the floor before I've even moved.
- James doesn't complain when dishes are in the sink for days or the laundry is piling up. I'm somewhat keeping up with housework now, but during the first trimester I did not. And James didn't complain and often did much of the work of himself.
- He lets me sleep in. Not every day, and I do try to repay the favor once in awhile, but many mornings James is the first out of bed tending to girls and I am so thankful for those extra minutes of sleep.
When I read over this I feel like it sounds like I do nothing. I sleep in, don't do housework, and then James gets up with them in the night. I'll let you make you own conclusions about what I do all day ad night, but just remember I am growing a human being inside my body. But, my point is I am very, very thankful for all of the help James offers in this crazy parenting gig.