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| Before |
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| watching TV. It's the only time she'll sit still. |
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| Please, no comments about how stylish I am. |
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| Our finished results. |
2014/02/10
Catherine's first hair cut (and now her second)
In the beginning of October I gave Catherine her first haircut. I had no idea what I was doing, but it didn't look terrible when we finished, so I was pleased. I have yet another item to add to my "skills I acquired while living overseas" list.
James had been saying for weeks he was ready for C to get anther haircut. I knew that he meant a much shorter one but I just wasn't ready. One day last week, though, I decided I could handle it so we brought the bathtub to the living room again, put in another movie, and went at it.
No salons are banging on my door seeking my employment, but if I can cut the girls' hair and it look reasonably good, I'm satisfied!
2014/02/07
Chinese New Year 2014: Year of the Horse
This was our first year to be in our city for the entirety of the Chinese New Year Celebration. The last day of the year of the snake was on January 30 and January 31 began the year of the horse. Below are pictures and videos of our celebration.
Here are the girls with their adopted grandparents.
Because we had never been here for the whole celebration, neither James nor I realized that it is also an occasion to offer sacrifices to their ancestors. On our drive home we saw many families burning paper money or other items as gifts to their ancestors.
Our city square was decorated for the festivities.
Below are some videos of the fireworks displays we saw from our window. Most individual families' fireworks could put some cities' 4th of July celebrations to shame. Here is just a small sampling of the remnants the next day.
Another tradition for the New Year is to hang new "dui lianr" around your door. Dui Lianr are red strips of paper with words of blessing or good wishes that hang vertically on both sides of the front door, horizontally on top and a square, turned diagonally on the door. Many banks and stores give them away. When I went shopping a worker threw a stack of them in my cart. You can see what Catherine enjoyed doing with them.
These videos really don't do any justice to the fireworks we saw/heard/felt/tasted/smelled.
We live on the 18th floor, so we were quite literally in the middle of a fireworks show for a few hours. How the girls slept through it, I'm not sure. I'm grateful, I'm just not sure how they did it.
Perhaps it was all the dancing they did at our friends' house that worked up a good tired.
One of our best local friends was out of the country for the holiday and his brother was celebrating with his fiance and her parents. Before he left, he gave us clear instructions to take care of his parents and celebrate with them so they wouldn't be lonely. We happily obliged. Above is the spread of appetizers we were served. That's right. These are just the pre-dinner. Dinner was a whole fish, mutton dumplings, beef and potato stew, sliced beef (maybe like brisket?) with dipping sauces, and some pickled vegetables.
Our city square was decorated for the festivities.
2014/02/06
Christmas-part two
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2014/02/03
Christmas-part one, in no particular order
2014/01/31
our first China road trip
So first let me say this isn’t Jill. This is her… worser half… which means that grammar and other things may not be as accurate as when my wife writes. I’m more interested in telling a story and I don’t really want punctuation and grammar to get in the way, which they have been known to do from time to time.
We rented a car for the first time last week, and short of getting lost once, and almost being run off the road twice we had a pretty good time. We started the whole drivers license process when saw a sign from www.zuche.com in our elevator. Realizing that we could rent a car made the idea of traveling to other places to see friends with two little girls much more do-able.
To begin with, let me say that when I drive here I drive a lot like my mother. Mom is a country girl and when she is in the city caution and precaution are understatements. I am the same here. I found myself a little overwhelmed with all the traffic and driving styles in the city. Once I got in my lane I didn’t leave it! It didn’t matter if the other lane was moving faster, it didn’t matter if I had to stop for vehicles in front of me, it didn’t matter if someone parked in my lane… I was going to wait it out. :-) I felt that I was both the safest and most unsafe driver at the same time. I was definitely watching out and driving more courteously than anyone else (like they teach you on the drivers test), but at the same time I’m sure I was driving the most unpredictably to the other Chinese drivers. (I also think I accidentally merged lanes in the middle of an intersection, but that’s another story.)
Before we rented from the website above we found a friend of a friend who had a car rental company and rented from them instead. My Chinese friends had warned me about hidden fees and the companies trying to rip you off so I was a little bit nervous, but in the end didn’t have any problem with that. They were quite kind, and actually gave me a little grace on the mileage limit when I went over it. I put down 3,000 RMB. (about $500) The car was 200 ($35) per day and they just took that out of the 3,000 when I got back. They also kept 500 RMB of it for one month. This is in case I get a/some automated speeding tickets…. so time will tell on this. All in all I felt like they were a good company. The car on the other had was a different story.
You know when you rent a car in the states you find yourself in a late
model car with quite a few bells and whistles and immaculately clean?
Not the case in China. We had a small Buick
Something-or-Another Sedan. I don’t know the year model, but it had
definitely seen some use. It came complete with a nice smoke smell when
it heated up from the sun (for some reason being hot from the heater
didn’t bring out the smell). The seatbelts in the back were all safely
tucked away behind the seat so they wouldn’t get in your way. The
engine had some noises that worried me a little bit, 3 of the hubcaps
were wired on, and we started to shimmy when we got over 110 KMH. (65 mph) (Most
of the speed limits were 100 so only between here and the next main city was it an
issue) Lastly, when I was cleaning it out to take it back I found an
empty bag of shrimp chips under the seat. We hadn’t eaten shrimp chips.
Still, it got us there and back safely so I guess I can’t complain.
Let’s say this is just a fair warning so you’ll know what to expect.
A word about car seats. No one uses them. We have lots of friends with a child and lots of those friends have cars. We know only one who has a car seat for their child. They just don't use them. There is no law that says you have to (and the law only requires the driver to be in a seat belt although they rarely are). Mostly they just hold their kids in their laps in the car. We were so very thankful Jill's mom brought us a car seat when she came in December.
Driving itself was not TOO bad. Inside the city was a bit nerve racking as mentioned above, but once we got on the highway it was very similar to driving in the states with 3 exceptions.
1) We both read some Chinese, but some of the roads are not very well marked once you leave the freeway. Our one episode of getting lost involved this. However, thanks to a plethora of toll booths everywhere we asked and they pointed us back in the right direction. If my GPS had been working on my phone this probably wouldn’t have been a big issue.
2) Gas and tolls are expensive. We have been back in China for the last 1.5 years, but I just haven’t bought much gas. When I filled it up the first time and did the conversion I realized I had just put in $50 to fill it 3/4 of the way. (I think it’s roughly 10 RMB/liter) The tolls also were more than I expected. We spent somewhere between 150-200 RMB ($30) each way just on tolls. (for a drive that was about 425 km/264 miles)
Also a side note here that EVERY highway in China is a toll road.
3) Chinese people drive aggressively. I know you are like, “No, kidding.” I have lived here quite a while but their were 2 instances I was not ready for and almost got ran off the road. The first was just a crazy driver in a small car who thought he was playing Mario Kart. I was not the only car he made swerve. The second was a bit more malicious. I was driving back at night time and slipped into an American driving mode for a minute. The truck in front of us wobbled in his lane a bit and so being the good American driver that I am I merged into a farther lane just to be on the safe side. This elicited several honks from the drivers in the fast lane who were catching up to us. I passed the truck and merged back into my lane. The van that was in the fast lane swerved into our lane as soon as he was ALMOST passed us. I had to swerve to keep from hitting him. I guess he thought he was teaching me a lesson about Chinese driving… and indeed he did. WATCH OUT!
Looking back… all in all, it was a good experience and one we will probably do again sometime soon. (Jill had a great idea that we might try during Spring Festival, and that was to drive up to the mountain where we can look down at the city and enjoy probably the greatest firework show in the world).
Renting a car was more expensive than a bus, but it was so much more comfortable with a family. Also, the flexibility and freedom were amazing. Some day we might buy a car here, but for now I think we’ll just rent when we want to take a trip out of town.
-James
We rented a car for the first time last week, and short of getting lost once, and almost being run off the road twice we had a pretty good time. We started the whole drivers license process when saw a sign from www.zuche.com in our elevator. Realizing that we could rent a car made the idea of traveling to other places to see friends with two little girls much more do-able.
To begin with, let me say that when I drive here I drive a lot like my mother. Mom is a country girl and when she is in the city caution and precaution are understatements. I am the same here. I found myself a little overwhelmed with all the traffic and driving styles in the city. Once I got in my lane I didn’t leave it! It didn’t matter if the other lane was moving faster, it didn’t matter if I had to stop for vehicles in front of me, it didn’t matter if someone parked in my lane… I was going to wait it out. :-) I felt that I was both the safest and most unsafe driver at the same time. I was definitely watching out and driving more courteously than anyone else (like they teach you on the drivers test), but at the same time I’m sure I was driving the most unpredictably to the other Chinese drivers. (I also think I accidentally merged lanes in the middle of an intersection, but that’s another story.)
Before we rented from the website above we found a friend of a friend who had a car rental company and rented from them instead. My Chinese friends had warned me about hidden fees and the companies trying to rip you off so I was a little bit nervous, but in the end didn’t have any problem with that. They were quite kind, and actually gave me a little grace on the mileage limit when I went over it. I put down 3,000 RMB. (about $500) The car was 200 ($35) per day and they just took that out of the 3,000 when I got back. They also kept 500 RMB of it for one month. This is in case I get a/some automated speeding tickets…. so time will tell on this. All in all I felt like they were a good company. The car on the other had was a different story.
A word about car seats. No one uses them. We have lots of friends with a child and lots of those friends have cars. We know only one who has a car seat for their child. They just don't use them. There is no law that says you have to (and the law only requires the driver to be in a seat belt although they rarely are). Mostly they just hold their kids in their laps in the car. We were so very thankful Jill's mom brought us a car seat when she came in December.
Driving itself was not TOO bad. Inside the city was a bit nerve racking as mentioned above, but once we got on the highway it was very similar to driving in the states with 3 exceptions.
1) We both read some Chinese, but some of the roads are not very well marked once you leave the freeway. Our one episode of getting lost involved this. However, thanks to a plethora of toll booths everywhere we asked and they pointed us back in the right direction. If my GPS had been working on my phone this probably wouldn’t have been a big issue.
2) Gas and tolls are expensive. We have been back in China for the last 1.5 years, but I just haven’t bought much gas. When I filled it up the first time and did the conversion I realized I had just put in $50 to fill it 3/4 of the way. (I think it’s roughly 10 RMB/liter) The tolls also were more than I expected. We spent somewhere between 150-200 RMB ($30) each way just on tolls. (for a drive that was about 425 km/264 miles)
Also a side note here that EVERY highway in China is a toll road.
3) Chinese people drive aggressively. I know you are like, “No, kidding.” I have lived here quite a while but their were 2 instances I was not ready for and almost got ran off the road. The first was just a crazy driver in a small car who thought he was playing Mario Kart. I was not the only car he made swerve. The second was a bit more malicious. I was driving back at night time and slipped into an American driving mode for a minute. The truck in front of us wobbled in his lane a bit and so being the good American driver that I am I merged into a farther lane just to be on the safe side. This elicited several honks from the drivers in the fast lane who were catching up to us. I passed the truck and merged back into my lane. The van that was in the fast lane swerved into our lane as soon as he was ALMOST passed us. I had to swerve to keep from hitting him. I guess he thought he was teaching me a lesson about Chinese driving… and indeed he did. WATCH OUT!
Looking back… all in all, it was a good experience and one we will probably do again sometime soon. (Jill had a great idea that we might try during Spring Festival, and that was to drive up to the mountain where we can look down at the city and enjoy probably the greatest firework show in the world).
Renting a car was more expensive than a bus, but it was so much more comfortable with a family. Also, the flexibility and freedom were amazing. Some day we might buy a car here, but for now I think we’ll just rent when we want to take a trip out of town.
-James
2013/12/28
James was asked to be a judge for a children's chess tournament
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| Traditional Chinese chess |
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| I think this is so cute. Decisions are tough! |
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| This guy got second place! |
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