weddings

We've been to a couple weddings recently.  Weddings here are one thing that I can't seem to culturally adapt to very well.  There's not much formality to them and generally they don't include any kind of public commitment or vows or anything.  The marriage is "legal" whenever the couple registers for their marriage certificate at the government office, and the wedding is just a meal to celebrate with friends and family.  

The thing I find even more interesting is that most of my friends also don't like their wedding customs but don't feel like they any other choice than to do what's "normal" since it's what their parents expect.  

A welcomed change since I was here last is the presence of a beverage other than alcohol.  The bride and groom and whichever set of parents are hosting the event normally toast each table of guests.  The custom is to use very strong alcohol, but at both the weddings we attended recently, peach juice has been offered as a substitute.

Bride and groom is traditional clothing.

groom carrying bride on his back.  Probably in response to some request from a guest or family member.

part of the wedding feast

another bride and groom

The host or announcer.  He introduces the family and the bride and groom as well as any performers.

At the second wedding the feast included lots and lots of mutton (sheep).  Nothing was wasted.  Not even the parts I personally wish could have been :)

the alcohol used for toasting